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[00:13.35] Welcome to The English We Speak. Hello I'm Feifei…
[00:16.86] …and hello, I'm Rob. Feifei, why the sad face?
[00:20.60] It's not a sad face, it's an angry face.
[00:24.36] Oh no, has someone upset you?
[00:26.37] They sure have. I've just overheard Neil saying I have no fashion sense – he says I dress like I'm living in the 1980s!
[00:34.86] Ouch!
[00:35.87] And he says my clothes are uncoordinated and dated!
[00:40.11] Well, Feifei. I hate to say it, but if the cap fits…
[00:45.37] What cap? I don't wear hats.
[00:48.36] No, Feifei. I mean, the criticism is probably true and you should accept it. In other words, he's probably right.
[00:56.10] Hmm! Rob, I can't believe you agree with Neil!
[01:00.86] Let's hear some examples, shall we?
[01:04.86] Examples
[01:05.11] A: My boyfriend calls me messy and untidy - what a cheek!
[01:09.61] B: Well, if the cap fits.
[01:12.11] You say your teacher thinks you're lazy because you never do your homework? Well, if the cap fits!
[01:19.86] A: They think I ate all the biscuits because I was the only one in the kitchen last night.
[01:25.11] B: Well, if the cap fits!
[01:32.26] This is The English We Speak from BBC Learning English and we're finding out about the phrase
[01:36.89] 'if the cap fits', which means you agree with someone's criticism or an opinion about you - and
[01:42.64] you should accept it. But Rob, I can't accept what Neil said about my fashion sense.
[01:49.65] So you're saying, in your case, the cap doesn't fit?
[01:53.64] Exactly. But Neil is rude, unkind and tactless.
[01:57.64] Absolutely!
[01:58.64] And you are the same for agreeing with him. So Rob, 'if the cap fits'…
[02:03.89] I know… I should wear it! Actually, Feifei, your clothes aren't that bad. You look very fashionable in fact.
[02:11.40] You're a hypocrite too. Rob, keep wearing that cap!
[02:15.64] Fair enough. See ya.
[02:17.39] Bye.
